The push-you, pull-me battle.....

The push-you, pull-me battle.  

As parents, how much do we push/nudge/shove our children toward sporting involvement and achievement.  Can this be measured against how much the child pulls the parents towards what they want to be involved in and the goals they want to pursue?

I was once told by a very wise man, 'pay attention to what your kids are passionate about'.

Ok, but this begs a few questions among many others I'm sure:

Does passion come as some lightning bolt out of the blue, or is a parental push towards things part of the 'developing passion' equation?

Is there some sort of sequential order that moves a child from interest to passion?

Is the mark of true passion an intrinsic motivation that is demonstrated by what an athlete is prepared to do alone in pursuit of developing their skills - an excellence happens when no-one is watching phenomenon?