It's what it really boils down to isn't it? We can either tear each other apart or build each other up. On a personal level but also on a wider cultural one.
As tennis clubs/centres/coaches/parents/players/volunteers, our ultimate success depends on the overall health of our industry.
The stronger the industry, the more jobs, the more resources, the more knowledge gained and shared, the greater the improvement both on and off the court.
A culture of back-biting, where players hope their mates/rivals lose, where coaches talk down other programmes or colleagues, where parents are less than complimentary towards each other.....we've all been there at some point, all played a part in this....
Don't get me wrong - healthy and respectful competition is good, it drives up standards, but competitive collaboration, recognising the strengths in each other, the great contributions made at all levels of the sport, the victories no matter how great or small - well, that kind of culture is just better for all of us.
It's quite hard though, goes against the grain and our human instinct.
Requires some real intentional behaviour and change in attitude.