I want her to show up.
To physically show up and sign in. Without her I have no game, no match - there is no 'sport' without the opposition.
Then I want her to show up fit and ready with her full effort, her full range of skills, her full competitive ability. I want and expect her to fight like hell against me.
That's the only way I can measure myself today, because I want to be tested, examined and challenged. And when I'm tested, examined and challenged, that's where I learn, that's where the value and enjoyment is found because I love the battle.
And I will respect her best effort by bringing mine and fighting for e-v-e-r-y single ball and leaving my skin on the court if I have to.